Friday, July 30, 2010

Guest Blogger


Thirteen days ago, a little girl was born.  Within about 24hrs., a little boy was born.  Both have brown skin and black hair, but that is where the similarities end.
 
The little boy was born to a mother who lives at a dump in Guatemala.  He will undoubtedly know hunger during his life, will likely not receive an education, and may be destined to live at the dump for the rest of his life--unless we intervene.
 
The little girl was born in America to professional parents who will be able to provide all of her needs and most of her wants.  She will never know hunger, will receive a good education, and will probably enter a profession, just like her parents.
 
Both of these children are precious to God.  Their circumstances have nothing to do with them, but only with where they were born.
 
On July 16th, I boarded a flight in Tampa, Fl which would take us via Miami to Managua, Nicaragua.  Our purpose was to visit some of the ministries our Florida Baptist Children's Homes is already involved in.  We first went to a Nursing Home with 10 residents.  It had been in total disrepair until Nicaraguan Baptist Association got involved and contacted FBCH.  Now there are three cottages which are open and have residents in them.  They are more like homes than what we have in America.  The cottages have 3 bedrooms, a bath and kitchen area.  There are about 3 residents in each.  No, they are not as clean and sanitized as the institutional nursing homes in America, but they are well-cared for and a nurse comes regularly to check on them.  There is one man from the states who lives there--his choice.  There is no air-conditioning, but their rooms are much more like a home than what is here in the states.  Several teams have been there to paint, clean up brush and remove trash from the compound.  Across the street was a gated home that could not even be seen from the road.  I wonder who lives there and if they even care about the elderly across the street from them.
 
The next day, we visited Bethel Baptist Church which has a ministry to about 200 of the poorest children in Managua.  The church buses them in.  This day, they were having a Bible school.  After class, they were fed a meal.  I was in the kitchen distributing plates onto serving trays, so I missed what some other team members saw.  The children would take their meal, open the styrofoam container, take a bite of chicken, one bite of rice, and one bite of their roll.  Then they closed it to take it home to feed their families.  That may be the only food their family has that day.  They are not at all greedy, but share willingly with their families.  Failure to do so means their family will not survive.
 
During the Bible school class I attended, the teacher gave an assignment.  She took out a baggie with a few crayons in it and gave one to about every third child.  We had taken boxes of crayons, but they were being inventoried.  I wished I had put one in my purse so that all of the children could have had their own crayon.  We take so much for granted here.
 
The third day we were in Guatemala.  We headed up to the Malnutrition Center in San Juan.  It used to be a Tuberculosis treatment center, but when TB became fairly extinct, it was turned into a Malnutrition Center for children.  It is owned by the Lion's Club of Guatemala City and used to be supported by them.  However, it turned out that there was one man who was providing most of the support, and when he died, it almost closed.  When FBCH was introduced to it, there were only 15 children there and very little food.  What food was there, was not nutritional.  After over a year of sending teams there, the mud has been cleaned out, the pantry stocked, rooms cleaned and painted, new washers and dryers installed, and now 67 children are being cared for at the center.  The capacity is 200, but there is still work to do.
 
We toured the Center and then FINALLY got to the baby room so we could hold these little darlings.  There are 28 babies there.  Several are twins.  The latest set of twins came in June when their mother died in childbirth.  They were born in May.  Their dad could not provide for them, so he brought them here.  At least, they will now have a chance, but can you imagine having to give up your child for several months or longer, just so the child will have food?  I know of no place in America where that would happen.  Some of them are not thriving--pray that they will, that God will reach down and touch them and wrap His arms around them and let them know he has a plan for their lives, too.
 
From Guatemala, we flew to the Dominican Republic.  There we visited a ministry to children who have been taken off the dump outside of Santiago.  The ministry was funded by a grant from the UN, but that grant has ended and FBCH is trying to provide resources to keep it going.  Many children have been maimed or killed by working the dump.  To be a part of the Children of One Hope Center, the parents must agree to never allow their children to go to the dump again, to enroll them in school and to send them to the Center after school for tutoring.  They also receive instruction in music and art.  Some of their art was incredibly good!  In the afternoon, the children were there.  Some of the team members joined the children in a volleyball game until it was rained out.  Then we went down to the room used for chapel and a team member presented the gospel.  Several children raised their hands saying the wanted to receive Christ.  The staff will follow up with them.  We had bought snacks for the children (about 125).  Each received a muffin, a piece of chocolate and a drink.  The rain continued and we literally watched the roads wash away.  We had already been stuck in that mud earlier and wondered if we could get out.  We watched a little boy, carrying his brother upstream, to the gate of the center.  We had some leftover muffins, so we handed them to the neighborhood children.  When he was handed one, he gave it to his little brother.  He did the same with his drink.  Of course, we gave him his own muffin and drink.  They are so gracious and giving--just precious people caught in a cycle of poverty.
 
The next day we took a long ride up to the border of the Dominican and Haiti.  We did not cross over, but met with pastors from 7 churches in the area.  They are ministering to displaced Haitians who fled after the earthquake.  They are in a no man's land, as they are illegal in the Dominican and their own country doesn't want them back.  Without birth certificates, their children cannot go to school and there are few jobs available.  Pray for them and pray that we will know how we can help them help themselves.
 
One cannot go there and not come back with a new appreciations for God's grace in our lives.   The resounding thought is "what can I do that will make a difference in the lives of the people I met"?  We do not want to Americanize them, we want to meet their physical needs and introduce them to Jesus.  "What can I do?"  That question haunts me daily.
 
For more information or to follow the blog, check out www.orphansheart.org.  I had not planned to go on a mission trip this year, but God had another plan.  When I was asked to go on this one, I just had to say yes.  I do not know all of the reasons for my being there, but I do know God will reveal them as He sees fit and on His timetable.
 
Thanks, Amanda, for allowing me to use your blog.  I look forward to reading your thoughts when you return from Guatemala.
 
Brenda McCollum

Friday, July 23, 2010

Vacation in Guatemala



This has been an interesting and emotional week. Although I haven't actually cried yet, I feel like I could at any moment and when I start I'm not really sure I will be able to stop. God is starting to prepare my heart for changes He is going to make in me this coming week. I have no idea what He is up to, but it's quite overwhelming.


This picture of me is from the last time I left the US. I spent a few days on a luxury cruise ship relaxing and enjoying time with a friend who I don't get to see often since she lives in Tampa. It was a great time that I will cherish forever. It was the first time I had ever been on a cruise and I was "hooked" and couldn't wait to plan another one. Fast forward 14 months and I'm about to spend my vacation in a completely different way. Even though I have never been on a "mission trip" I'm already hooked. Sure I wouldn't mind going on another cruise one day but getting to go into the world and be God's hands and feet seems like it would be even more exhilerating and rewarding, don't cha think.

There won't be any all inclusive buffets and steak dinners. There won't be any waiters bringing me fruity drinks while I sun bathe. And I'm doubting there will be dancing in the wee hours of the morning. None of that, because I'm going to Guatemala in obedience to God's command and I honestly have NO clue what that is going to look like. All I know is that it won't be on a luxurious cruise ship, I won't have one of my best friends with me, I don't have a clue what I will be eating (much less if I will even have an appetite), but I really couldn't be more excited! For the first time in my life I am completely stepping out on faith and doing what God told me to do even though it doesn't fully make sense right now: Go to Guatemala July 24th-31st and I will show you what to do when you get there.

I can't even begin to put into word all the thoughts and emotions that I have experienced this week. I've been re-visiting the "Faith Works" series and was reminded of WHY I am going to Guatemala. The book of James will really mess you up. That's why I'm going. Because James messed me up. Thanks a lot, James! I challenge you, if you haven't listened to these messages listen to one a day while I'm gone, if you have heard them already listen again!

A neighbor told me last night that she could tell such a big difference in me and that I was radianting. WOW! Thank you God for letting YOUR love radiate through me to her!!! I wish that were the case 24/7! I pray that He will radiate through all of us this week to the people in Guatemala.

Joshua 1: 9 says, "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed. for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go." I'm so excited about being completely dependant on God and that He is coming with me! He will be my strength, my rest, my joy, my friend, my healer and my feast!

Please be praying for our safety, that we will be open to whatever God calls us to do and for God's glory to be known in Guatemala! Also, pray for rest for J.T. and the interns who are arriving from Uganda tonight and then turning around for Guatemala early tomorrow. Turn your attention to http://www.1wayministries.blogspot.com/ for updates while we are in Guatemala as I will not be posting on here until I return.

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Career Advice, Please

Friday I found out I was accepted at UAB for the Fall. It took a long time for me to hear from them and right before going to Guatemala just didn't seem like the right time for me to find out. I just ignored the letter over the weekend so I could focus on my trip. Monday when I was back at work, though my thoughts went back to whether or not I should pursue this. I've been thinking about this for over a year now and keep putting it off. Basically I need 11 accounting classes in order to sit for the CPA exam. Taking 11 accounting classes will cost about $9,000 and I won't have a "degree" to show for it. It just qualifies me to sit for the exam.

Yesterday I talked with a co-worker about it because I knew her undergrad was in marketing and then she went back to school a few years after graduating to get a second bachelors in accounting so she could sit for the CPA exam. She is a mom and only works part time. I asked her if it was worth it to her to go back and do it and she said absolutely and she wishes she also got a law degree, lol. I guess if I didn't already have my CFP that would have done it for me and I would pursue the CPA for sure, but the truth is I already do have a "professional designation." She didn't when she went back to school. Other random (encouraging) advice she gave me was to wait till after 30 to marry because people really change around age 29/30 and couples either grow closer at that age or apart so it's best to just wait until after 30 after you have "changed." I don't know if she knows I'm 30 or not, but I think about all the changes that have occurred in me during the last 2 years and she's on to something there....

Anyways, today I asked my boss what he thinks about me taking the classes and taking the CPA exam and his advice was a little different than I thought. Although he thinks very highly (obviously) of the CPA designation he basically said, "Would you be considering this if you still worked for Brooks? I think it's natural to think that since you work for a CPA firm and everyone around you is a CPA that you should be one, too but it comes down to what do you want to do? Taking 11 accounting classes will not benefit you much as a financial planner like taking 11 classes on more financial planning related topics or even psychology would since so much about what financial planning is about understanding the way people think and how to ask the right questions, etc whereas accounting is very factual number crunching." He did not discourage me from doing it, in fact he said there's no doubt that having the CPA designation as a financial planner does give you more of an edge and he suggested maybe just taking it one or two classes at a time to just see if it is what I thought it was and if it's what I really want to do.

That was very helpful advice to think about and pray about while in Guatemala next week. The truth is, yes, I wouldn't be thinking about being a CPA if I didn't work for a CPA firm, duh, but later in life my "dream" job is to be on staff at a church as a financial planer/accountant. I think they say 80% of tithes comes from 20% of the members and I believe that if people have sound biblical financial planning advice then they would give more. For me personally when I STOPPED tithing it was because I didn't know how to control my spending and then I got in a long rut of not tithing. I wish I had had a "counselor" to go to to talk to about how to get back on track because I genuinely wanted to tithe I just didn't know how to prioritize. So all that to say, I think that having the CPA and CFA would give me the knowledge and credentials for this type of ministry later in life and also couldn't "hurt" me now, since I do some tax and accounting but is it worth $9,000? And can I be just as good at my job now and in the future without the extra credential?

I would love your advice and prayers on this, please!

My mom asked me to post my 2009 Christmas card on here. Here it is....

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Trusting God With My Weight Loss

When I was about to start the Radical Experiment and was reviewing my monthly expenses the only two expenses that I could come up with that weren't obligations were Directv and my gym membership. I love working out at the gym more than I love cable tv so I canceled my cable for 6 months (it comes back on in August). I will cancel it again in January for 6 months, though. Over the course of the year, though, I'm using the gym less and less and finally decided it was time to cancel my membership. It wasn't easy to do. I love having the "option" of going to the gym but I just had to tell myself it was a luxury not a necessity and I'm throwing money away if I'm not going at least 3-4 times a week.
 
As with most people I tend to think that I can control my weight if I just do this workout plan or go on this diet, or take this pill, etc, etc. Once I canceled my gym membership, though, it finally hit me, if I want to lose weight none of that will work without God. If I really want to see God work then all I have to do is ask Him to help me. God's results are always better than anything any of us humans can come up with, right? So that's my new Weight Loss Plan.
 
Here are two examples of ways I have turned to God to help me with this.....
 
First, Monday was my first day back to work after being off for a week and eating candy, snacks, ice cream, etc. I knew I would be hungry (or think I was hungry) at work. I always have a banana mid-morning but I don't always plan for an afternoon snack and sure enough around 2:30 I had the urge to go to the kitchen at work to get a snack. I wasn't really hungry, just bored with sitting at my desk, I think. I wrestled with the urge and God reminded me that if I can fast for an entire day then I did not need a snack to get me through the afternoon. I found relief in that and the urge for a snack went away. That might not seem like much but if trusting in God in those little things is important to building a closer relationship with Him.
 
Second, I have been trying to walk Roscoe in the mornings and evenings for exercise for us both but getting back into the routine after being off last week has been slow. The alarm went off Monday and Tuesday and I failed to get up to walk him. I love our morning walks because it's not nearly as hot as it is in the evenings and it is so calm and quiet out, but getting up is hard!!! Then yesterday, Roscoe chewed an opening on a small quilt that was on my couch that my mom got me when we were in the Amish country a few years ago. He didn't destroy it, just got some of the stuffing out. I was mad, though. I had walked him Tuesday night, but apparently he needed a morning walk that day, too. So last night I asked God to please wake me up and give me the strength to get up so I could walk him before going to work. Since I didn't have any luck getting up on my own Monday and Tuesday I figured I might as well ask God. And guess what? God woke me up and I walked him 30 minutes before work today!!!!! God is good!
 
Again, that might not seem like much, but as my dear friend reminded me, God wants us to go to Him for everything, even the little things. If and when I do drop this "tax season" weight without a gym membership I know that God deserves all the praise and glory! Learning to trust God in this area of my life is more than worth the "sacrifice" of a gym membership!
 
 

Monday, July 12, 2010

Single Mom

This past week I got a dose of being a single parent. After the week I thought about how my life would be like if I did in fact adopt a child on my own. Some aspects of it weren't so bad, but some things I was like, wow, do I really want to do this. My niece (well, nieces) is a sweetheart. She is at a fun age and I thoroughly enjoyed her company but I am soooo not used to having to "entertain" someone 24/7. She literally followed me every time I went into another room, slept in my bed with me (and my two dogs), completely "took over" my computer and is quite a picky eater! Relaxing on my float at the pool was not an option either. We had to "play." All of that was fine because I knew she was only there for a week but it did make me think, "Can I really handle this full time?" It reminded me why I wanted twins...so they will always have a friend their age to play with!
 
I had a list of thing in my head that I kind of wanted to get done or do with her during the week when there was downtime but there was no downtime so none of it got done! Pool + heat + no rain = all day at the pool. Sunday I spent several hours just catching up on my Bible reading so I would be caught up before going to church. I wonder, though, how it would have been different if she lived with me full time. I wouldn't feel as much "pressure" to want to spend as much quality time with her because there would always be tomorrow, right? I wouldn't LET her take over my computer, I would make her sleep in her own bed, and would make her eat healthier. Wouldn't I? It's hard to tell. I only know how to be an aunt, I don't know how to be a mom. Being an aunt is great because you don't have to be strict and you get to plan lots of fun stuff. And the best part is you get to give the kids back. 
 
I will admit the drive back to Birmingham was very sad. It was very nice having a "roommate" for the week. I adjusted just fine getting back into my routine, but it was sad not having my little buddy there. Roscoe missed her, too. The older I get the more I get used to my "schedule" and it would probably take some serious adjustments to add a child into that routine.
 
I'm not saying I would not adopt a child if that is truly what God is calling me to do in the near future, I'm just saying that that was quite a reality check of what that would look like. My hat goes off to the single mommas out there.

Sunday, July 11, 2010

James 1:27

It dawned on me today, or better stated, God revealed to me today, why the book of James, in particular verse 1:27 (care for orphans and widows), spoke to me so much this past Fall. The first time I took a "spiritual gift" questionnaire it said my spiritual gifts were children and elderly. I wasn't all that surprised. I guess that's why I chose to work in the nursery at church and was drawn to a small group that had a nursing home ministry. I am no longer involved with the nursing home ministry, though. Something just wasn't clicking right for me and I did not feel like I was making much of an impact by showing up every other Tuesday night with food and visit with the residents for an hour or so and then leave. Today I think I realized why it wasn't a good match and what needs to change.

I'm a one-on-one kind of person. I don't like groups. I like to give and get undivided attention and there are just too many distractions in groups. Whenever I went to Highland Manor with the group from Brook Hills I spoke more to my church friends than I did the residents because that was more comfortable to me. God told me today that I need find a widow to adopt and care for. I want to find a resident at the nursing home on 119 who doesn't have family visit often and just go spend time with her, read to her, sing hymns with her if she wants to, watch a movie, have ice cream, do grocery shopping for, etc. I am going to commit to a minimum of an hour a week to spending time with her or doing something for her. That may not seem like much, but I don't even commit that much to many of my friends so it actually is a big commitment for me.

I grew up in a college town and my church was right in the middle of UF's campus and we had an "Adopt A Student" program and I think we had at least 7 students over the course of my childhood. One of which is a doctor that we still keep in touch with. I've always thought that was a great ministry and although I was adopted through a "program" while I was a college student I did have an amazing family adopt me on their own and I am forever grateful for that opportunity. So now I want to adopt a widow.

A couple in our church just recently moved there and I am going to try to get in touch with them and ask them to help place me with someone there. It's close to church and close to home so I am sure there will be plenty of opportunities for me to spend time with her. This is all very bittersweet, though, because my "poor ole grey headed grandma" (that's what she calls herself, not me) is alone in a nursing home 7 hours away and rarely gets visitors and I wish I was able to visit her more. I pray that I can provide companionship for someone like my grandma and am I'm praying for God to bring the right person in my life that He wants me to adopt!

Francine Rivers

Today I played catch up on my reading for the week and as I was reading Hosea I was reminded of the first Francine Rivers book I read, Redeeming Love. If you have never read any of her books this is a great one to start with. I think I listened to it on on ipod from Itunes and it is such a great fictional story of Hosea. I love the way she gives life to the people in the Bible. I also read Amos and she wrote one on him, too, that I haven't gotten a chance to read, yet. Also, Bethsheba, Ruth, Tamar, Rahab and many others. Check them out! I hope to read all of her books at some point.

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